Tough decisions

Adrian's case worker came for a visit and we discussed the possibility of a short term stay in a suitable facility. On an intellectual level I know it is becoming necessary for my overall health but in the heart it is a very difficult decision. I know he would be well looked after but I fear he might take it badly. She reassured me that the first eight hours are difficult but then they settle in. Apparently they recommend respite like this every three months. That seems so unrealistic given how long I have gone without. A day here, two days there but no sustained break for almost three years!